Been thinking... okay, I do get a burning feeling sometimes, but only after anal sex, not during. ::shrug::
Stretching is fun... and maybe some write it as what it is/can be - a sort of foreplay.
Assplay is good, definitely, but I see it so often as just 'well, we have to do this to get you ready' -- 'no, I can't wait, I don't care if it hurts' and my eyes roll. Now if it's treated as foreplay, or better, as an end in itself (because not everything leads to buggery, people!), I'm a happy Jack.
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Re: more on buggery....
Date: 2002-08-04 04:53 am (UTC)Stretching is fun... and maybe some write it as what it is/can be - a sort of foreplay.
Assplay is good, definitely, but I see it so often as just 'well, we have to do this to get you ready' -- 'no, I can't wait, I don't care if it hurts' and my eyes roll. Now if it's treated as foreplay, or better, as an end in itself (because not everything leads to buggery, people!), I'm a happy Jack.