So you're suggesting that all rude questions be responded to just with a link to the DC boards? Because I think part of the problem is, we've had to keep quiet and play a waiting game too often in offline life. It's asking a lot of myself, to refuse to defend my spaces online. I also wonder, a little: If it's what works, then ok, but are you sure that's not just the same old girls should be seen and not heard? I used to believe that getting angry solved nothing, until I saw how much better people who got angry did on things like telephone service holdups.
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Date: 2005-01-08 09:22 am (UTC)